Feeling Resentful? Maintain Better Boundaries.
Hi, everyone! This is Lara Hammock from the Marble Jar channel and in today's video I'll talk about why setting clear interpersonal boundaries is good for your relationships and helps you from growing resentful. I know that I’m a little prickly. What this means is that I am sensitive to certain kinds of offense. In particular, I don’t don’t like to be talked to in a condescending tone. That makes me prickle and I can be rather vocal in my objection. I’ve always considered it to be a bit of a character flaw, but as I age and watch other people's relationships crumble or implode around me, I can't help but wonder if it would be better if people were a bit more prickly along with being a bit more generous. Let me explain. For me, it is all about boundaries. Boundaries are unwritten rules about how you expect others to treat you. Some rules are guided by social norms — don’t kiss me on the lips if I’ve just met you or walk...